This is what its like to have an Ashtyn... I mean she's 6, has started Kindergarten, reading and doing math on a 2nd grade level, makes her own friends, her own songs, and her own games with -you've got it- her own rules. Her brother's were proficient in using utensils -EXPERTS EVEN! Food to mouth NO PROBLEM. Yet this girl eats with her hands and spreads food across the table and floor like a toddler SHE'S. A. MESS. A beautiful, excited, smart, loving, creative, bubbly, valiant, funny, energetic, adventurous, mess. ...and I wouldn't trade her for anything.