waiting on 2 pink lines
So we just found out the other day that we're expecting our second child. I don't really know what to say because it doesn't feel like a reality, I'm still trying to grasp the thought that I have one! Anyrate I am due the 6th of March which seems so far away! I am so excited! I am also struggling with tons of feelings of anxiety and some worries, like will Law feel replaced or feel I don't love him as much? Will I love them both equally? etc. etc. Did/Do any of you have worries like this? How do I help Law cope with pregnancy and a new sibling? Any advice?
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All you fears -- completely normal. I mourned the last few weeks before my 2nd was born. But you know, you're giving Law the greatest gift he could ask for; a sibling. And you'll be amazed at how much love you are capable of, even when you think you can't possibly love anyone or anything more than your first child.
In the beginning its really hard. After 6 months or so you'll all of a sudden just be a pro at two kids and its no biggy. So don't stress yourself on how you're going to handle it. It will be totally fine!
If you just include Law as much as you can in the process before the birth and the care of the baby after the birth he'll be fine! Just look at how close you and David have always been and he was a lot younger than Law!
Love you all and am so proud of you!